The Polite Woman’s Guide To Getting What You Want

It all begins with expressing what you want.
Claiming your voice, the keys to your Castle.

Perhaps you have always prided yourself in being there for others. Yet now you are exhausted  and wondering when you can drop the pretense, stop fighting with yourself and your loved ones, and put an end once and for all to hiding in the shadows.

Once upon a time, I lived for being the good girl and doing the right thing.

I was a world class people-pleaser. Yes, I had opinions and fire. But they were cloaked from view in my attempt to please others.

Door mat was my middle name, and there were no boundaries in sight.

I felt completely disconnected from who I really was until my life shrank to a room with no hope and very little luxury.

Wherever I turned, there was no room for me or what I wanted out of life.

Finally, fed up with what wasn’t working, I embarked on a mission to change my life and my circumstances.

I’m now on a mission to help every exhausted people-pleaser find the lap of luxury within herself.

To speak in her own voice, to find the Le Chic of Speak within and the Peak of Chic without. To create her own Spiritual Chic Cocoon, that Sacred Space.

Together, I want to help you fully express who you are in the way you talk, walk, dress, eat, decorate and even breathe.

Your family, your loved ones, even your bosses and clients will experience a better version of YOU when you indulge in being selfish when you need it.

When you take time to be who you are and connect to what you want, you get really honest and open about your needs. In expressing what you want clearly, you set healthy boundaries and get rid of all the confusion and lies from the past.

In doing so, you free up space for dialogue, forgiveness, and a whole lot more love. Knowing what you want helps you and the people in your life because when you can come to the table without a hidden agenda, comfortable in your skin, truly embodying the real you, you get to be seen and heard. It doesn’t matter if you don’t always get what you want. What makes the difference is that you know what to ask for and being naked feels natural and powerful.

Call it Divine Guidance or Design Guidance, having a space of your own – in your head, in your body, and in the world – allows your spirit to flourish and you to create a life that is a delicious feast of what you truly desire and deserve.

I invite you to join me at the table….

Joie de Vivre,

Jen Duchene.

Jen Duchene is an internationally acclaimed speaker, Le Chic Lifestyle & Design Expert, Polite Woman Extraordinaire, and Radio Host of Le Chic Speak on The Woohoo Radio Network. Jen’s book Le Chic Cocoon: 7 steps to creating your Selfish Space is the go-to guide for Exhausted People Pleasers who are ready to find freedom through Personal Space & Polite Power Rules.

Her impressive credentials include being named one of the Top 20 Interior Design Firms by San Jose Business Journal, being featured in Home Builders Magazine, and regularly appearing in the media.